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Makeup Musings: F*ck Imperfections

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I put on some make up yesterday, and to be honest…I didn’t feel super great about it.

For one, I am deeply out of practice, and blending is a perishable skill, let me tell ya. So, my blending skills aren’t as “keen” as they once were. Two, I wore much less makeup than I normally wear when I plan to take pics of it with a DSLR camera, photography lights, off-camera flash and the other photography doo-dads, and makeup intended to be photographed is a whole different beast than makeup for everyday real life. Mainly, the lighting is different, and mobile phone cameras incorporate a bunch of fancy AI to compensate for the smaller optical sensors. Long story short, things don’t always translate the same in pics.

ALSO, lately, all I’ve wanted to wear are “real life looks.” This is my face, this is who I am and, quite frankly, I’m rarely in the mood to go through the 2,341 steps I used to do when I put on a full face for pics.

Thing is, though, when I look at these pics, I’m having a hard time focusing on the good stuff. I keep comparing myself to the Karen from years ago, a girl who was photo-ready all the time… Heck, I’d contour just to take walk around the neighborhood and pet the cats, LOL!

I see these pics of myself now and think, “Oh, boy. I probably should’ve used a color corrector to hide that dark spot in my inner corner more thoroughly, and I should also cover that dark patch above my upper lip with concealer, and why didn’t I do something about that heavy lid?!” I should’ve done this, I should’ve done that, yadda-yadda-yadda.

I hear all of these things in my head, but I realize that most people who see these pics aren’t going to perceive all of these things as “faults.” They’ll probably just see pictures of a smiling mid-40s stranger wearing bright lipstick.

If I were my daughter and was picking apart pictures of herself, I’d be heartbroken to hear her criticize herself so intensely. 🙁 I’d tell her that I can only see the happy look in her eyes and that I’m impressed by how beautifully and naturally she blended her blush. I’d tell her that I love the joy in her smile.

I don’t know where this propensity to constantly critique myself comes from, but I also know that we are our own worst critics. I know logically that most of the things I perceive as faults are issues that are simply not there, or things that people don’t notice at all…but that doesn’t stop me from seeing them!

I’m working on it, though. I’m working really, really hard on loving myself more, both inside and out, and that’s why I’m saying to the universe (or really anyone who’ll listen), f*ck the idea of imperfections. I don’t want to live feeling like I need to correct things that are “wrong” with my face anymore. I’m soooooooo done.

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So, here’s a gentle reminder for me (and for you just in case you need it), that what you may perceive as faults aren’t as bad as you think they are.

I think you look pretty freakin’ fabulous, OK? So here’s to us — as I raise my cup of Earl Grey tea with a splash of creamer! Here’s to our sparkling eyes, our joyful smiles and our beauty, both inside and out.

I hope you have a wonderful Friday. 🙂

Your friendly neighborhood beauty addict,



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  • jane says

    June 4th, 2021 at 9:22 am

    You still look great!


    • Karen says

      June 4th, 2021 at 1:27 pm

      Thank you, Jane, and happy Friday!


  • Tatiana says

    June 4th, 2021 at 11:46 am

    You have a radiant smile and sparkling eyes. And even without makeup you are still pretty. But more importantly, you are a witty, creative writer and that reveals just how intelligent you are. The photos of Tabs on Sundays reveal your creativity. And there have been so, so, so many times I have laughed out loud from your writings. You are also a very loving, caring and nurturing parent. You have so many wonderful qualities that are more important than whether or not you look tired on any given day.
    We readers love to come here to see the makeup looks, but we stay for your voice and your warmth. Hugs.


    • Karen says

      June 4th, 2021 at 1:27 pm

      Hugs right back at you. Thank you always for your kindness. Wish we could be neighbors IRL!


  • Heather says

    June 4th, 2021 at 11:52 am

    As you already pointed out, it’s quite different to hear something from someone else than it is to think it yourself. However, I just wanted to say how often I find myself admiring how absolutely lovely you look in your photos. You are always so glowing, even when you aren’t wearing many products! I am pretty much incapable of wearing anything but a full face and, if I don’t have the time to do that, then I go barefaced. It’s something I’ve been wanting to change since I know there must be some middle ground I’d be happy with, and you are a continuous source of inspiration to me in that regard, as you manage to look so lovely with less.

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